10 Reasons why not to argue with haters - Shaik Sharoz

10 Reasons why not to argue with haters - Shaik Sharoz

10 Reasons why not to argue with haters

Have you ever experienced someone in your life whom you felt like he is your hater and he hates you even if you do nothing harm to his life or him.Yes You might have absolutely met such a person
Here are the 10 Reasons why not to argue with haters.

Haters are all around and their work is just to hate and blame at people and their work, They get internal satisfaction whenever they criticize others.It is not their fault even, If you are new to this blog Do read my old post "How to deal with Haters" there you will know why to Love your haters.

Haters are one of the most important part of our life and yes! they are a part of our life,Apart from the people who hate for no reason Today we will see below Reasons why not to argue with haters.

10 Reasons why not to argue with haters :

1) Argument gives them satisfaction:  Whenever you are having a verbal fight or argument with them He really enjoys it and It is his intention that you should argue with them. If you still argue with them They will win with their intention, The first reason is very clear why you should not argue with haters.

2 )Lack of self respect : Such people who hates you have no self respect, They will always try to pull you down to their level which probably you should not allow them to do.Arguing means going to their level and then have a conversation with them on a matter that doesn't make sense to you so always have your self respect with you and never argue with such people.

3) Jealous  : Your haters are always Jealous of you but they never show it to you.You can find easily by their high behavior of them. If they argue make sure to maintain silence, and remember silence is the best reply to fool.

4) Hate : They don't hate for what you do, They hate for what they can't .Always remember whenever the argue with you, It doesn't always mean that they hate you, But for a fool it is good not to argue.

5) Over smartness : Most people think that fighting or arguing make them look smart. No man it wont, That's the worst thing one can ever do with someone. Argument is like a non sense thing which has no use of it . Never try to argue to look Smart, That's not the actual way to show your smartness but the most of the people think that it is the best way of expressing their smartness, How can someone explain them that it is Over  smartness and that too worst one.

6) Domination: This is the biggest factor why people argue with other people, That is domination. If some one argues with them they feel like they are being dominated and they start to argue with the competitor. Hence the ego plays a very important role in a verbal war.Whether if they tries to dominate you Don't worry it is not actually a domination its their way of showing their Hate towards you. Don't let your ego come in between this Domination factor.

7) Gain Attention : The next main reason why a fool argue is to gain attention towards him from you and everyone  surrounding you.This way by arguing he thinks he gains the attention of everyone towards him, Yes! he gets attention for sure but he should know whether it is Positive or Negative as up to his knowledge he thinks whatever he does is right. He don't have to care what others thinks of his behavior.

8) Revenge nature : They somehow always try to take revenge by arguing and trying to initiate a fight, This is why you need to be a self respected person. If you have no respect for yourself then you will probably comes into this category, And i hope my readers are not of such a kind of revenge taking mentality.

9) Hurtful nature : These people also comes in (1) category. Whose intention is to hurt others and they feels it as their duty or something similar to it. They don't care about others cause their intention is to Hurt others with their harsh words and behavior.

10) Pride : Arguing looks like a pride to some people who follow that type of behavior. Its never that thing you always be ashamed if you argue with a fool in public It is better to stay silent in front of them and if possible smile at them during the argument.You can see that the opposite person if he is a fool and his intention is to hurt you, If you smile he will definitely stop the argument and do his work.

Also read :   30 Habits of Highly Successful people

So, guys these are the 10 Reasons why not to Argue with haters or with a fool.